

Call Me Mara
Series:
New Testament
Book:
Ruth

Rev. Lim Yi Jin
The sermon opens with a full reading of Ruth 1 and then walks through the chapter's unfolding tragedy to press home a single question: can God be trusted when he empties us of what we love? The preacher recaps the earlier study of Elimelech's family, who fled famine-stricken Bethlehem for Moab rather than repenting and returning to the Lord. Under the Mosaic covenant, Israel's famine was itself a form of divine discipline meant to call God's people back to obedience, yet Elimelech's household chose self-reliance over repentance. The move to Moab appears to succeed at first, but Elimelech dies, and after ten childless years both of Naomi's sons, Mahlon and Chilion, die as well, leaving Naomi and her two Moabite daughters-in-law, Orpah and Ruth, as three destitute widows.
The sermon frames Naomi's decision to return to Bethlehem not as a hopeful homecoming but as capitulation — she goes back not because her heart has changed but because Moab, a land with no covenant provisions for the vulnerable, offers her nothing, while Israel's law provides gleaning rights and community care for widows, orphans, and foreigners. The preacher highlights how Naomi's own words expose her theology: she urges her daughters-in-law back to Moab using an altered blessing formula, saying the Lord has "dealt" with her rather than declaring, as is customary, that he has dealt "kindly," and later insists that her old neighbors call her Mara, "bitter," because "the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me." The sermon argues Naomi is theologically correct about two things — God's sovereignty (nothing happens outside his ordaining will) and God's justice (the covenant curses she suffers are the fair consequence of the family's disobedience) — but badly wrong about a third: God's glory. Naomi assumes, out of a deeply self-centered posture, that God pursues his own glory at her expense, as though his interest and her good were opposed. The sermon presses the congregation to examine whether they harbor the same suspicion — treating God as an opponent who might strip away a cherished relationship, ambition, or secret sin — and confesses that the preacher has felt this same resentment when God withheld something wanted "more than him."
Against this, the sermon insists that God's glory and his people's good are never rival goals requiring compromise, because a sovereign God is never forced to choose between them; when he empties his people of lesser comforts, it is in order to fill them with something better, not to abandon them. A quote from Old Testament scholar Iain Duguid — that God sometimes must empty us before we are empty enough to be truly filled — anchors this turn, reinforced by a line from the hymn "Be Still, My Soul": "your Jesus can repay, from His own fullness all He takes away."
The sermon then turns to the two daughters-in-law as a study in contrasting responses to loss. Orpah's decision to kiss Naomi goodbye and return to her people is presented as more than a practical housing choice — it is a spiritual choice to return to Moabite gods and to separate herself from the household in which faith in the God of Israel was beginning to take root. Ruth's decision to cling to Naomi is framed the same way: her vow — "your people shall be my people, and your God, my God" — is a conversion, a deliberate abandonment of her old gods for the Lord, made all the more remarkable because the only picture of this God she has seen is one of severe, inescapable justice mediated through Naomi's own bitterness. The sermon insists this faith is not Ruth's achievement but God's gift, since only God has the authority to call his people to himself, and points forward to Ruth's inclusion in Israel and her place in the genealogy leading to King David and ultimately Christ as proof that God delights to bring outsiders into his family. The sermon closes with a direct appeal: every listener must choose, like Orpah or like Ruth, either to keep pursuing worldly security by their own strength or to entrust themselves to a God who is dangerous in his holiness yet unfailingly good, and closes in prayer asking for faith to trust God's wisdom even when his purposes are hidden.
Bible Verses Used
Ruth 1:1-22: The full passage read at the outset frames the entire sermon, tracing Elimelech's family from famine and flight to Moab through the deaths of Elimelech, Mahlon, and Chilion, and Naomi's bitter return to Bethlehem with Ruth.
Ruth 1:8-9: Naomi's altered blessing over her daughters-in-law ("as you have dealt with the dead and with me") is used to show her belief that God has been harsh rather than kind toward her.
Ruth 1:11-13: Naomi's argument urging Orpah and Ruth back to Moab illustrates her conviction that following her to Israel offers no realistic hope of husbands or children.
Ruth 1:15: Naomi's charge that Orpah "has gone back to her people and to her gods" sets up the spiritual, not merely practical, nature of the daughters-in-law's choice.
Ruth 1:16-17: Ruth's vow to go where Naomi goes and take Naomi's God as her own is treated as the climactic confession of saving faith and the heart of the sermon's application.
Ruth 1:20-21: Naomi's request to be called Mara, "bitter," because "the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me," is used as the clearest window into her flawed view of God's character.
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