Love and Pray Your Enemy

Series:

New Testament

Book:

Matthew

Rev. Lim Yi Jin

The sermon takes up Matthew 5:43-48, the closing unit of Jesus' six antitheses in the Sermon on the Mount, and confronts the church with what the preacher calls one of the easiest passages to understand yet one of the hardest to obey. Jesus quotes the popular teaching of his day, "You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy," and the sermon traces its roots to Leviticus 19:18, showing how the Pharisees, by reading that command in isolation, narrowed "neighbor" to mean only fellow Israelites. Because Leviticus 19:18 is bound up with a warning against bearing grudges "against the sons of your own people," the Pharisees concluded that love was owed only within the covenant community, while outsiders - Gentiles, understood broadly as Romans, Greeks, Persians, Babylonians, Assyrians, Canaanites, and Egyptians - could be treated as enemies to be hated, prayed against, and if necessary destroyed.

The sermon argues that this "love your own, hate the outsider" ethic is not a uniquely Jewish failure but the universal architecture of fallen human society. Every nation, tribe, and faction is built on circles of trust: loyalty within, hostility or wary tolerance without. The preacher illustrates this with the Chinese proverb "different race, different heart," with a chilling quotation from Hitler's Mein Kampf about the Aryan race and the Jew as parasite, and with a line from the Satanic Bible urging vengeance rather than turning the other cheek. The point is that hating one's enemies is not a distinctly Christian vice to be tolerated but a thoroughly worldly instinct - the very logic that fuels dictatorships, racial supremacy, and terrorism - and Jesus' hearers must recognize that merely loving those who love them back offers nothing distinctively Christian, since even pagans and self-interested people do as much.

Against this, Jesus commands in verse 44, "love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you," grounding the command in verse 45's vision of the Father who "makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust." The sermon carefully unpacks the phrase "so that you may be sons of your Father": this is not a transaction in which obedience earns sonship, but a call to live out an identity already given. Drawing a parallel with Matthew 5:16, the sermon reasons that good works in believers exist so that onlookers glorify the Father, not the believer - meaning the goodness is properly the Father's, evidencing a life already made new in Christ rather than purchasing it. To "be" sons, then, means bearing the family likeness: sons look like their Father, and the Father's defining trait toward the world is a love that transcends the boundary between the deserving and undeserving.

The sermon then presses into the hardest theological question this raises: does God actually love his enemies, given that Scripture describes his righteous judgment on nations and even on unfaithful Israel? It rejects the Pharisaic (and recurring modern) assumption that love and judgment are incompatible, insisting instead that God's love, justice, holiness, and faithfulness are inseparable facets of one perfect character - love that were it not just, faithful, and holy would not be love at all. This coheres at the cross, where God's demand for justice and his commitment to love his enemies meet: Christ, the substitute and representative of humanity, bears the wrath that was owed to us as God's enemies, so that justice is satisfied and love is proven in the same act. The sermon quotes Romans-like logic ("in this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son") without citing the reference directly, tying it to the Lord's Supper words "this is my body broken for you... I die so that you may live" as the ultimate demonstration that God loved his enemies to the point of self-sacrifice.

Personal testimony forms the sermon's emotional core: the preacher confesses long-held hatred toward persecutors of the church and certain political figures, illustrated by the true story of a pastor kidnapped by Malaysian secret police for preaching to Muslims, whose wife and daughters refused to hate their captors and instead prayed for their salvation. The preacher recounts how committing to pray regularly for jihadists, totalitarian regimes, and enemies of the church - beginning years ago in an English prayer meeting - gradually dissolved his own hatred. William Tyndale's dying prayer for the king who ordered his execution ("Lord, open the King of England's eyes") is offered as a historical model of this love in action rather than mere feeling. The sermon closes by clarifying that loving enemies does not erase enmity, since the world's hostility to Christ guarantees Christians will have opposition; the goal is that any enmity be rooted only in the world's rejection of Christ, never in Christian hatred, so that observers see through transformed lives to the Father who is perfect, as verse 48 exhorts believers to be.

Bible Verses Used

  • Matthew 5:43-48: The sermon's main text, contrasting the traditional command to love neighbor and hate enemy with Jesus' command to love enemies and pray for persecutors, grounded in the Father's indiscriminate common grace of sun and rain.

  • Leviticus 19:18: Identified as the Old Testament source behind "love your neighbor," and shown to have been misread by the Pharisees (via its neighboring clause about "sons of your own people") to justify hating outsiders.

  • Matthew 5:16: Used to explain that good works exist so onlookers glorify the Father rather than the believer, supporting the sermon's reading that "sons of your Father" describes identity lived out, not merit earned.

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