

The Cost of Following Jesus
Series:
New Testament
Book:
Matthew

Rev. Lim Yi Jin
The sermon opens in Matthew 8:18-22, at the moment Jesus prepares to cross the Sea of Galilee from Capernaum to the region of the Decapolis. Matthew tells us Jesus makes this trip because a crowd has gathered around him, and the preacher notes that throughout this Gospel Jesus periodically withdraws from crowds to be alone with his disciples. Because the boat can carry only a few, two men in the crowd ask to go with him, and their exchanges with Jesus form the heart of the passage.
The sermon first corrects a common misreading. Many assume the scribe of verse 19 is the villain of the story and the unnamed "another of the disciples" in verse 21 is the hero, since scribes are elsewhere depicted as Jesus's hypocritical opponents. But the sermon argues this cannot be right, because Matthew calls the second man "another of the disciples" — implying the first person mentioned, the scribe, was already a disciple too. In Matthew's usage, "disciple" is a broad term for anyone who follows Jesus's teaching, closer to "student" than to the later technical sense of a committed follower of the risen Lord (a usage narrower in Mark, where the word refers only to the Twelve). Both men, then, are disciples in this looser sense, and Jesus's differing responses to them are not a rejection of one and an acceptance of the other but two corrections aimed at two different errors.
The sermon situates this exchange within the first-century rabbinic system, where a rabbi's disciples lived with him constantly, learning not only his teaching but his way of life, submitting to him as both teacher and master. Jesus adopts and universalizes this pattern in the Great Commission's call to "make disciples of all nations." Understood this way, the scribe's declaration — "I will follow you wherever you go" — is a sincere, even admirable, bid to become Jesus's disciple. Jesus's reply about foxes having holes and birds having nests, but the Son of Man having nowhere to lay his head, is not a rebuff but a warning: discipleship will cost the scribe the comfort and status he likely enjoys. The sermon likens this to Peter's overconfident vow never to fall away, followed by his denial before the rooster crowed, and to the preacher's own account of a dream in which a knife-point threat exposed how flimsy his own boyhood promise of martyrdom really was. The lesson drawn is that believers routinely overestimate their willingness to sacrifice and underestimate how costly following Jesus actually is, and that Jesus targets whatever idol — comfort, career, relationships — a given follower most needs to surrender.
The sermon then turns to the second man, who asks to bury his father before following Jesus — a request that Jewish custom, rooted in the fifth commandment, would treat as entirely honorable. The preacher notes that Jesus, who elsewhere rebukes the Pharisees for using religious pretexts to dishonor father and mother (Mark 7), is not asking this man to abandon filial duty as a rule. Rather, Jesus's command to "let the dead bury their own dead" forces this particular man to show where his priority truly lies: the demands of custom and family, or the demands of Christ, who brings life and inaugurates the kingdom of heaven. The sermon treats this as an individual, situational test — comparable to the rich young ruler's call to sell all he had — rather than a universal rule, since other beloved disciples such as Lazarus, Mary, and Martha were not required to leave home to follow Jesus.
Where the scribe was too quick to commit without counting the cost, the second man was too slow, weighed down by competing obligations he could not bring himself to rank beneath Christ. Matthew deliberately withholds both men's final responses, the sermon observes, because the passage is not merely a report but a summons: the reader, not the two men, must answer whether Christ will be given full and undivided priority. The sermon closes by pressing the congregation to examine what particular "terms and conditions" — career, romance, security — they are tempted to attach to their own discipleship, and to follow Christ not from self-confident resolve but by relying on his grace and power, as Peter eventually did.
Bible Verses Used
Matthew 8:18-22: The sermon's central text, recounting Jesus's exchanges with the scribe and the second disciple before crossing the Sea of Galilee.
Matthew 28:19-20: Cited as the basis for Jesus universalizing rabbinic-style discipleship into a command to "make disciples of all nations."
Luke 10:1: Referenced to show Jesus had far more than twelve disciples, clarifying the scribe was not asking for one of the Twelve's positions.
Matthew 26:31-35: Peter's vow never to fall away, used as a parallel to the scribe's overconfident promise to follow Jesus anywhere.
John 21:18-19: Jesus's later word to Peter about stretching out his hands, shown as the deeper cost Peter eventually accepted after his confidence was shattered.
Leviticus 21:1-3: The Mosaic ceremonial law restricting corpse-contact to immediate family, background for the custom behind the second man's request.
Mark 7:9-13: Jesus's rebuke of the Pharisees for voiding the fifth commandment through tradition, used to show Jesus does not intend to override family duty as a rule.
Matthew 19:21: The call to the rich young ruler to sell all and follow, paralleled with Jesus's command to the second disciple to leave the dead and follow him.
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