

Time is Short, Love Well
Series:
New Testament
Book:
1 Peter

Rev. Budy Setiawan
The sermon expounds 1 Peter 4:7–11, continuing an exposition of 1 Peter that has focused on how Christians endure suffering as sojourners and exiles in the world. The preacher notes that Peter now grounds this call to endurance in an eschatological reality: "the end of all things is at hand." This echoes 1 Peter 1:20, where Christ is described as foreknown before the foundation of the world but manifested in these last times, which began at Christ's first coming and will close at his second. The sermon acknowledges the scoffers described in 2 Peter 3:3–4, who mock the delay of Christ's return since "all things are continuing as they were from the beginning of creation," and answers them with 2 Peter 3:8–9: the Lord is not slow but patient, reckoning a day as a thousand years, not wishing that any should perish but that all should reach repentance. The sermon stresses that no one knows the day, and that death can come suddenly and without warning — illustrated with a story of a falling wall in Melbourne's Swanston Street that killed several pedestrians, including two siblings. The point is not that Christ's return is imminent within days, but that any individual's own last day could be. In light of this nearness, the sermon argues, Peter gives four practical marks of a life ready for Christ's return.
The first is self-control that enables prayer. The Greek behind "be self-controlled and sober-minded" carries the sense of sobriety, contrasted with drunkenness — a state in which a person loses control and acts without full awareness, later regretting words or deeds done unknowingly. The sermon reframes "drunkenness" broadly: anything that seizes control of one's priorities and crowds out reliance on God counts as spiritual intoxication, whether busyness, achievement, or the constant distractions of modern life. Prayer, by contrast, is an admission that nothing in life can be accomplished apart from God's mercy and strength; neglecting prayer while pursuing self-directed productivity — even sermon preparation itself, the preacher confesses — is itself a form of being "drunk" on self-reliance.
The second mark is fervent love, drawn from verse 8: "above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins." As the last days intensify suffering, trials, and temptation, believers will increasingly sin against one another under pressure and stress. Love does not sweep sin under the rug or excuse it, but uncovers it honestly while choosing forgiveness and continued affection rather than lasting rupture — this is how love "covers" sin.
The third mark, drawn from verse 9, is hospitality offered without grumbling. The sermon connects this to Matthew 25, where Christ separates the sheep from the goats based on whether they fed the hungry, gave drink to the thirsty, and welcomed the stranger — deeds done, Christ says, "to the least of these my brothers," is done to him. Hospitality is framed theologically through Hans Boersma's description of the atonement itself as divine hospitality: God, in Christ, has come to invite sinners into his presence to share eternal fellowship with him, an invitation renewed sacramentally at the Lord's Table. The preacher shares personal experience of receiving and extending hospitality — housing visiting ministers and families in Singapore and Melbourne, and a memorable simple meal shared with a single congregation member in a shared kitchen — and urges the church, families and singles alike, to open homes to strangers and to those unlike themselves, not merely to familiar friends, since Christ himself has opened his heart to welcome them.
The fourth mark is faithful stewardship, from verse 10: "as each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace." The sermon explains the Greek oikonomos — a steward entrusted with a master's household, like Joseph under Potiphar — who is accountable for what belongs to another, not himself. Every believer, including church leaders (pengurus), is such a steward of grace received: talents, time, money, health, and even the body itself belong to God, not to the individual. The sermon singles out attention as a particular grace under threat in an age of engineered distraction (invoking economist Herbert Simon's insight that an abundance of information produces a poverty of attention), warning that hearers may be physically present yet mentally absent from God's word, and pointing to Psalm 1's picture of the one who delights in and meditates on God's law day and night as fruitful and unshaken. Giving undivided attention to others in their struggles is itself an act of love. The sermon closes by tying verse 11 back to the whole passage: whoever serves is to do so by the strength God supplies, so that God is glorified through Jesus Christ — meaning that as believers serve faithfully, God is simultaneously serving and blessing them, so that they in turn become channels of blessing to others as the last days draw near.
Bible Verses Used
1 Peter 4:7–11: The sermon's main text, calling believers who live in the "last times" to self-controlled prayer, fervent love, hospitality, and grace-empowered service.
1 Peter 1:20: Cited to establish that the "last times" began with Christ's first coming and will end at his second.
2 Peter 3:3–4: Quoted to show scoffers who mock the delay of Christ's promised return.
2 Peter 3:8–9: Used to explain God's patience — a day as a thousand years — as mercy giving time for repentance, not slowness.
Matthew 25 (sheep and goats): Grounds hospitality to strangers as service rendered to Christ himself.
1 John 3:16–17: Applied to argue that closing one's heart to a needy brother is incompatible with God's love abiding within.
Psalm 1: Used to picture the blessed, fruitful life of one who gives undivided attention to meditating on God's word.
1 Peter 4:7 (self-control): Highlighted for the Greek "sober-minded/sober" wordplay contrasted with drunkenness, applied to distraction from prayer.
1 Peter 4:8 (love covers sin): Explained as forgiving and persevering in love rather than concealing or excusing sin.
1 Peter 4:9–10 (hospitality and stewardship): Expounded together as concrete lifestyle applications of love in the last days, culminating in glorifying God through Christ (v. 11).
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